Week Two: Forming Intentional Disciples

Session Two: Chapter One – God Has No Grandchildren

Here are the discussion questions this week:

In your own faith:

  • Have you always been Catholic?
  • How did the instruction and mentoring you received help you – or prevent you – from having a personal relationship with God?
  • If you were raised in a Catholic home, are your family members all still Catholic?
  • What events among your friends and family seem to explain why some are Catholic, and others are not?

I’ll focus on the first three this time around.

I’ve been Catholic since being de-paganized three weeks after birth.  Had 12 years of Catholic education.

And then went to college where I eventually said “no thanks”.  Went to Sunday mass for a month or so once I arrived on campus, but found that Sunday mornings came awfully early following late Saturday nights of partying.  Turned into a “Chreaster”, and ceased doing anything to develop or learn about or care about my faith.

Of course, that’s all different now, and the journey from that point of my life to the present day is a topic for another day. 

Suffice it to say, though, that all those years of instruction and mentoring had little or no bearing on my personal relationship with God.  That’s not to say I’m blaming anyone in particular – either the schools I attended, or the teachers I had, and certainly not my parents.  My folks worked hard at their faith and were great examples, and sacrificed so that all us kids could get a Catholic education (even in those days, it still meant something, for the most part).  I just merely said “no thanks” when I got out on my own.

What those years did provide, however, was a rock-solid foundation, so that when I finally came around and realized I had been living contrary to God’s plan for me, I had firm footing beneath me.  Coming to that realization was purely God’s grace, and I owe a debt of gratitude to my parents for building upon that foundation.

I come from a large family of 10 kids – 8 surviving – and except for one brother, we are all still practicing the Catholic faith to varying degrees.  It’s the next generation where the faith has sputtered – of all my countless nieces and nephews, only a handful (that I know of) claim to be Catholic.  My extended family is a microcosm of what’s transpiring in the Church – later generations leaving and many not returning. Or some remaining, but with little fervor.

It’s something I think about regarding my sons – are they going to trod the same path I did, and say “no thanks” when they get out on their own?  It’s possible.  My fear is that I wasn’t the example to them that my parents were to me, that even though I rejected the faith for a time, the memory of how they lived the faith served as a touchstone for me when I reverted.  If my sons reject the faith, will they be able to look back and recall how their dad witnessed the faith, and be inspired to return?  Will they be able to say “My dad was a joyful disciple of Jesus, and I want that”, or will they say “My dad only cared about the rules”? 

It’s on me.  Time to get joyful. Time to be a disciple.


About Larry D

LarryD has been blogging since March 2008, making observations on trends within the culture and the Church. His goal? Poking hornets nests with a stick and injecting humor into the New Evangelization, with the gentle reminder that everyone's taking themselves way too seriously. He currently resides in Michigan.
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7 Responses to Week Two: Forming Intentional Disciples

  1. “Time to get joyful. Time to be a disciple.”

    This. Totally.

  2. Nan says:

    I wouldn’t worry too much about your kids; I was baptised at a normal age, went to Mass until I was 7 and by the time my class had their first communion we had stopped going to church. I still turned out Catholic and am the only one in my family.

  3. sarahreinhard says:

    It’s easier to be a lot of things OTHER than joyful.

    I so get the fact that all of that education did nothing for your relationship with Christ but yet they laid a foundation. That gives me hope.

    And now I need to go off and get joyful.

  4. Loved this. Would you be comfortable if I shared part of your blog post with the Forming Intentional Disciples Facebook Forum? It is a closed Forum of about 430 Catholic leaders and practitioners who have read and are seeking to implement FID in their lives, parishes, and dioceses. And thanks for the reminder. Time to get joyful indeed!

    PS – if you’d like to join the forum yourself, just let know your e-mail address.

    Sherry Weddell

    • thelarryd says:

      Thanks for stopping by, Sherry. I’m honored.

      You’re more than welcome to share any part of my blog post you wish. And thanks for the invite, but I’m not on Facebook.

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